You’re not the problem. The pattern is.
I'm Emily Kurutz, a South Bay couples therapist. I help partners break painful cycles and rebuild a secure, lasting connection — with Emotionally Focused Therapy, one of the most researched approaches in couples counseling. It’s so painful when important relationships get off track. I can help you find the way back, some times creating a new road and other times repairing the old one
(408) 656-3556
How I can help
Couples Therapy (EFT)
For partners stuck in the same painful cycles — constant conflict, distance, infidelity, or disconnection. EFT helps you see the pattern and rebuild trust.
Trauma Recovery
Specialized care for survivors of sexual assault and intimate partner violence. Emily previously worked exclusively at the UCLA Rape Treatment Center.
Fertility & Postpartum
Support for individuals and couples navigating trying to conceive, pregnancy loss, IVF, and the overwhelm of new parenthood.
Individual Therapy
Attachment-based individual therapy for when the stuck places are your own — grief, anxiety, and old patterns that keep repeating.